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[phrasemuffin]

THE AGE OF PARANOIA IS OVER!!

today, all those "bad habits" end

... well, I figured I had to do something to celebrate the perfect score on my ICE test :P And what better way than self-improvement? hydeon has been on my back about it for the past couple of months now, which is probably testament enough to how badly I need this. So I'm just gonna do it. No more paranoia. No more harmful self-depricating. And no more reduced pedanticism (hell, you'll need something to recognise me by after all this).

bye bye bad self *waves*

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[highlyeccentric.livejournal.com]

yeah, well, as you'll note by the list of reasons why i found this relationship with Flinn to be quite novel, my dating history doesn't demonstrate the greatest of intelligence on my part. My favourite one is the bit where i dated people i didn't even like as friends... *rolls eyes*

It's the "mostly sleeping..." part I'm worried about there. :P *slaps* bad David.

nah, that's actually the biggest sign of how much i trust the man... I have a thing about people being in the same ROOM when i'm asleep, let alone right next to me.

what think ye of the situation, anyhow? - if you're talking about the "Amy and Will" situation, I don't know. I mean, I think it's cool that you have someone that close to you, who can get that close to you without it being "like that".
maybe the fact that it has been like that makes the difference? i'd imagine crossing all those personal space barriers with a totally non-amourous person would be weird and take quite a while... but once i've established that trust, the fact that he's been through the weird shit of dating me and loves me anyway makes a big difference. I'd hate to give that up... but i worry that I'm just being selfish.

you're probably right about it being different for guys- although i'd much rather let a guy close to me than a girl. Take the sleeping thing. There's few girls i'm really comfortable sharing a room with, even on a one off basis. But there's no good excuse for not doing it... Whereas with guys there are a few who i like to have around, with whom it's comfortable to hear them breathing on the otherside of the room. But there's rarely a good excuse for sharing a room with a guy...

Girls are always showering together, removing each other's bras and then having pillow fights in naught but their knickers. GAH! Straight thoughts! GET AWAY FROM MEEEEE!

you're funny.

i'm crap at flirting when i'm supposed to be either. i think the essense of the Aggreement is that you're not going to be weirded out when my natural inability to not flirt with tall skinny geeks asserts itself :p

nothing wrong with a bit of randomosity.

[phrasemuffin.livejournal.com]

damn these comments are getting long

ha! I trump you - I only dated because I'd already rejected her and felt guilt/pity. I think that means I'm the bigger whore.

oh wait, wrong competition.

haha - "slap" somehow became "tickle" in my mind, which became "slap and tickle", which reminded me of the Evil Gay Elmo idea I had ages ago. Wouldn't you just LoVe an Evil Gay Elmo? He wouldn't be EVIL evil, just a boozin' cruizin' ball of red fluff, who likes to swear and make inappropriate (yes - sexual) jokes. He'd only be "evil" because he'd fit into the "evil twin" category.

wait, is Will still Interested in you? Is that why you feel you're being selfish? Or have I just missed the point of that paragraph?

and... wait, you didn't explain WHY you'd rather not have a girl sleeping in the same room.

Well, I felt I had to give some show of heterosexuality, otherwise you'd think I was just making "bi" up. And putting it that way was purely for mid-night entertainment.

hey!! who ever said I was a geek? and I dunno about being tall. I'm 178cm... *shrugs* everyone has their own standards for "tall" - it is, afterall, a merely relative term. And dw, I won't be weirded out.

[highlyeccentric.livejournal.com]

I only dated because I'd already rejected her and felt guilt/pity. I think that means I'm the bigger whore.
i did that. only i was after the whole affection/validation thing. mind you he was looking for a girl so he could prove his holiness by not having sex, much as other men prove their masculinity by having sex.

yes, i would like to see Evil Gay Elmo :D

no, will's not still interested in me... i mean selfish in the sense that it might be selfish to expect any guy i was with to be ok with that.

and... wait, you didn't explain WHY you'd rather not have a girl sleeping in the same room.
don't trust women. No, not like that, dirtbrain. I have female friends, but few of them get the total trust that some of my guy friends get. Probably because i've known too many insecure, bitchy women.

taller than me is tall enuff :p

[phrasemuffin.livejournal.com]

Why do people feel that they need to prove themselves anyway? Why can't people just accept each other for [who] and [what] and [how many people they have or haven't slept with] they... are?

I think we should start a petition ad send it to the owners of sesame street. Maybe they'll be willing to give us a licence to "borrow" and "enhance" Elmo?

But guys tend to be more likely to initiate practical jokes like shaving your eyebrows while you sleep, or covering your body in shaving creme. That, thankfully, hasn't happened to me, but we both know it's more likely that guys will do that sort of thing than girls. And you obviously didn't meet my friends at school. They were the bitchiest guys you could ever meet.

How tall are you?

[highlyeccentric.livejournal.com]

170 cm