I've been told by people who ought to know these things that 'gay' or 'bi' or 'straight' or 'queer' and so forth are not things you have to qualify for, but things you chose to identify as. So if you think you want to identify as 'gay' despite having some tendancies in the other direction at times, that's an identity choice not a qualification.
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Date: 2007-04-11 02:40 am (UTC)