So, today I thought I would share a revelation that I had this morning.
Sex for the sake of sex, or to prove that you truly do subscribe to a particular sexuality, does not count as sex. It is not based on attraction, chemistry, lust, love, or whatever you want to call it. It is based on how strong your will is, and how much you want/need to prove to others that you can do it.
The level of hormones a teenager has pumping through their blood and what that does to one's sex drive has a similarly negating effect. Especially in males. A male, in the right (or wrong) circumstance, can succumb to the need while ignoring particular environmental factors, whether they are gay or straight.
For this reason, I'm changing my status from "bi" to "gay".
This is definitely something I'm going to have to tell Peter. When I told him I was bi, he came out with that whole "the bisexual male is a myth" load of crap. Personally, I don't believe that's true; I think that guys can be bi just as much as girls can. I just no longer think I can classify myself as bi.
Anyway, that's my big thing for today. Yay for being on break!
Sex for the sake of sex, or to prove that you truly do subscribe to a particular sexuality, does not count as sex. It is not based on attraction, chemistry, lust, love, or whatever you want to call it. It is based on how strong your will is, and how much you want/need to prove to others that you can do it.
The level of hormones a teenager has pumping through their blood and what that does to one's sex drive has a similarly negating effect. Especially in males. A male, in the right (or wrong) circumstance, can succumb to the need while ignoring particular environmental factors, whether they are gay or straight.
For this reason, I'm changing my status from "bi" to "gay".
This is definitely something I'm going to have to tell Peter. When I told him I was bi, he came out with that whole "the bisexual male is a myth" load of crap. Personally, I don't believe that's true; I think that guys can be bi just as much as girls can. I just no longer think I can classify myself as bi.
Anyway, that's my big thing for today. Yay for being on break!
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I agree, guys can be bi just as much as girls can. In fact, I honestly do believe that all people are bi just on different levels, as in that scale that I suddenly forgot the name of.
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I'm still gayer than I am straight, though :P
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Yeah, I am too. The female anatomy does absolutely nothing for me.
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congratulations on your revelation :D That's some important things to realise about sex, as well as about sexuality.
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Thanks... the only problem is that, everytime I make up my mind about these sorts of things, my brain tells me I'm oh so very wrong and tries to re-reverse my position on things. Of course, I still believe everything I said about the lack of proof in such deeds, but my conclusion of complete gayness is now being attacked. Maybe Andrew (
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Anyway, my point is this: thanks =D
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Ya had me fooled sistah! ;)
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Besides, it's in my user info. Maybe not here, but definitely on Last.FM.
Yeah, but you aren't that hard to fool :P
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HAHA, me hard to fool? :P Yeah... right! What alternative universe do you come from? I seem to recall batman signals...!!!
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And yes, I too seem to remember something vague about confusion involving the bat signal. But that's just how I am with friends sometimes. I'm way too shy to actually flirt on purpose... most of the time. And I'd like to go on record as saying that I think some things were read into a little too deeply. Like the "Hot photo, dude" comment. I can't help it if the truth sounds like flirting. But that doesn't mean I was flirting.
Something to think about, mister.
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And I'm not going to think about it, cause it's all the past :P
*jumps on your shoulders*
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And how could you not like me heaps? I am, in all honesty, pretty damn awesome :P. Then again, so are you. So you're not allowed to go anywhere either, k?
*piggie-back rides*
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I'm bi, and I find that the urge to go in one direction or other changes almost every day. It's like choosing between two delicious pieces of cake that both look good but you can only have one, and yeah.
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You make it sound like you're a pendulum, swinging between gay and straight :P A hungry pendulum, mind you, but a pendulum all the same. But do you ever just feel like you could go both ways, or is it always a case of "I feel more like __, today"?
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But yeah, it's like a pendulum!
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Im glad you realized this though :D
You should be expecting a Massive Desi _ Pixie Entry in the near future.
:D
-- D__Pixx has been meaning to catch up with everyone
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Someone hasn't been checking their Grammar Crisis Room staff newsletter... tsk tsk *wags finger* :P
YAY FOR THE EVENTUAL RETURN OF THE PIXIE! XD
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Staff newsletter hasnt been reaching my MAILBOX :O
YAY!!
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Hey, what happened to the picture post?!?!
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And READ THE NEW POST!! :O