So, today I thought I would share a revelation that I had this morning.
Sex for the sake of sex, or to prove that you truly do subscribe to a particular sexuality, does not count as sex. It is not based on attraction, chemistry, lust, love, or whatever you want to call it. It is based on how strong your will is, and how much you want/need to prove to others that you can do it.
The level of hormones a teenager has pumping through their blood and what that does to one's sex drive has a similarly negating effect. Especially in males. A male, in the right (or wrong) circumstance, can succumb to the need while ignoring particular environmental factors, whether they are gay or straight.
For this reason, I'm changing my status from "bi" to "gay".
This is definitely something I'm going to have to tell Peter. When I told him I was bi, he came out with that whole "the bisexual male is a myth" load of crap. Personally, I don't believe that's true; I think that guys can be bi just as much as girls can. I just no longer think I can classify myself as bi.
Anyway, that's my big thing for today. Yay for being on break!
Sex for the sake of sex, or to prove that you truly do subscribe to a particular sexuality, does not count as sex. It is not based on attraction, chemistry, lust, love, or whatever you want to call it. It is based on how strong your will is, and how much you want/need to prove to others that you can do it.
The level of hormones a teenager has pumping through their blood and what that does to one's sex drive has a similarly negating effect. Especially in males. A male, in the right (or wrong) circumstance, can succumb to the need while ignoring particular environmental factors, whether they are gay or straight.
For this reason, I'm changing my status from "bi" to "gay".
This is definitely something I'm going to have to tell Peter. When I told him I was bi, he came out with that whole "the bisexual male is a myth" load of crap. Personally, I don't believe that's true; I think that guys can be bi just as much as girls can. I just no longer think I can classify myself as bi.
Anyway, that's my big thing for today. Yay for being on break!
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Besides, it's in my user info. Maybe not here, but definitely on Last.FM.
Yeah, but you aren't that hard to fool :P
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HAHA, me hard to fool? :P Yeah... right! What alternative universe do you come from? I seem to recall batman signals...!!!
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And yes, I too seem to remember something vague about confusion involving the bat signal. But that's just how I am with friends sometimes. I'm way too shy to actually flirt on purpose... most of the time. And I'd like to go on record as saying that I think some things were read into a little too deeply. Like the "Hot photo, dude" comment. I can't help it if the truth sounds like flirting. But that doesn't mean I was flirting.
Something to think about, mister.
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And I'm not going to think about it, cause it's all the past :P
*jumps on your shoulders*
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And how could you not like me heaps? I am, in all honesty, pretty damn awesome :P. Then again, so are you. So you're not allowed to go anywhere either, k?
*piggie-back rides*